Wednesday 30 May 2012

Review of an entertainment piece called: Crazy and in love.

May 9 2012 Sibusiso Mkhwanazi wrote about Micheal Buble's the crazy love tour at the Super bowl, in Sun City. the appealing hammer headline grabbed my attention because Buble sings a song called "crazy love". i read the whole article as Mkhwanazi carefully crafted the words that made me feel as though I too was at the concert. the article is crisp fresh two weeks later as I sit to scribble down what I feel. this is a good piece of work and I have been inspired to write more and read even more. life is Bliss when you know what you are after and not afraid to go after it.

what attracted me to becoming a fan of Buble is his sleek smooth voice that lures you into listening to what he has to say. the craft of his tone is swiftly moved through life as you compare his songs and words sang to your own experiences.

Buble is a great entertainer who involves you in his singing making you feel more than just a fan lured into his magical songs by his voice but as a contributor to his life.
this picture goes to show the audience that comes to look at Buble. I am crazily in love and thanks to Buble I feel sane
from the heart
xoxo
Caro-on-the-grind

Thursday 24 May 2012

Dear Blog

It has been two years, Being single has its own ups and downs but hey I have made it thus far. I am chilled and cautious,lovely and lively.

M-Mother of news
M-Made to be loved
A-Arrogant
D-Dynamic
I-Irreplaceable
T-Timeous
A-Automated
B-Beautiful
O-Overly cute


C-cautious
A-Adorable
R-Right
O-Only
L-Lively
I-independent
N-Noble
E-Exquisite


B-Bootylicious
O-Obedient
I-Irregular
T-Trustworthy
U-Unique
M-Multi-talented
E-Eloquent
L-Lovely
O-Obvious
Now I look in the miror and Say Caroline Boitumelo Mmaditaba Masonganye I love you and you are beautiful without a doubt in my mind because I am along the route of self-love and I am loving most of the time spent here. moving over to the other side of self-love was not easy but hey here I am...THANK YOU DADDY GOD.

ME being beautiful moi hey.
Laughter beats any heartache
Friends are there to share life with
Family loves unconditionally and they are my pillar of strength.
And First Winterveldt Baptist Church is the best

And to you yes you who has not been mentioned here,you are not forgotten. you remain forever and always in my heart.
I could never close this off before I say a special thank you to the bond of me sisters, I love you guys.
Skorzch Sithetho made me fall inlove with le Bow tie and now I am hooked ;)
and I am a cancer supporter
and last but not least the love of my life
Tenacious Soul clothing range by Tshegofatso Maotoe
for all I am and all I have, I am grateful.
I love you
caro-on-the-grind
xoxo

Thursday 17 May 2012

Not all hope is lost there are prolific writers who still thrive for a world that is standing on is own two feet. Ladies and gentlemen I give to you Boikhutso Beekay Ntsoko

This metamorphosis by  Boikhutso BeeKay Ntsoko

This metamorphosis is way too fast.

There’s just too much change in the world.

We live for deception and are triumphant about the pseudo-life that is presented to us in the form of material. They sugar-coat our ignorance with the lie that is education.

We are too quick to accept our misfortunate situations. We settle for less, not because we are unable but because we’re always looking for the easiest way out.

Youth is losing principles, and elders have become too cowardly to pass knowledge unto the following generations.

This metamorphosis is too much. There’s too much transition in the world.

We say we want global corporation, but how do we adapt to globalisation when we don’t have the base of our own characteristics. The youth has grown to become ashamed of their own traditions, norms, values and morals.


We try so hard to fit in, to the systematical way of life, that we forget that we were born to be unique individuals. Each of us is meant to make a contribution in this world. The way of life was free and beautiful, but we have lost the way.

We no longer honour the beauty that is our earth. We constantly feel the need to alter God’s work.

This metamorphosis is just too much. There’s too much migration.

They keep our minds entertained at all times, depriving it of its original duty, to think. People have lost the need to feel. We are parliatively bought to idiocracy.

We have lost the original way of human interaction. People are more proud today of having more friends in cyberspace than they do in reality. We despise conversations with others, not because we hate them, but because we have no vocabulary to uphold a decent conversation.

We have taught our souls to be lazy. We no longer hold value to spirituality. We spit on the feet of our cultures and yet we want to brag about our history.

We no longer hold books in our hands, but Blackberries. We no longer finish our sentences, because we’re too lazy to write or speak. Our minds have grown, since the beginning of history, because it was fed knowledge and it grew, but I get the feeling the 300 000 BC Neanderthals had much more competency than our generation.

This metamorphosis is too much to handle.

Sex has become a sport and a hobby, rather holding its connotative meaning of bringing two souls together and being a means of reproduction.

Today we hook up social networks, date on twitter, disclose our relationships on facebook, brag about our one night stands on BBM. We’ve forgotten to fall in love.

What happened to the olden days of late night corner meetings? When the youth was actually afraid to have an adult catch them holding hands. What happened to the olden days when we wrote love letters and hoped to hell that our parents never saw them? The foolish days of getting smitten? When a dude actually had to tell a girl how they felt. What happened to feeling the rushing lightnings when two people touched? What happened to embracing FEELINGS?

This metamorphosis is scary.

So scary I’m even afraid to bring my offspring into such barbaric debauchery. What are my children going to look forward to? What am I going to teach them as a father? I don’t want to tell my son the sad reality that my generation only saw the beauty of a woman between her legs, or the charm of a man in his pockets. I don’t want to have to lie to my son that the only to embrace your fellow brother is to call him “my nigga”, or to my daughter that the only time a man will make her feel special is when he calls her “bitch”. I would love to impart relevant knowledge to my children, but what knowledge would I be imparting if I none was passed on to me?

How do I teach my son to love and be faithful if I’ve divorced his mother? How do I teach my daughter to be a flawless queen if I’ve made people’s daughters feel cheap in life? How do I teach my son responsibility when I couldn’t even feed him when he was born? How do I facilitate the support of a woman to her man, to my daughter, when her mother calls me a motherfucker, right in front of her?

There’s too much metamorphosis in this world, and it’s scary to think what the world is headed out to be. *Turns and walks away in shame*


 Here's to the re-birth of life and all it entails.
xoxo
Caro-on-the-grind.

Thursday 10 May 2012

I am single and you are????

My heart sank as I looked in the mirror, I am getting old geez!. No boyfriend, no potential...nothing!
There are over 5 billion people in the world but guess what? I am single
As single as the fall of an autumn leaf in the morning, as single as a fresh drop of rain from the sky,difference here is is I am not that fresh. Two decades and counting is not child's play...

Everyone around me is chilled,Just T and D are telling me to look at it in a positive way but despite the self-love I have learnt to have,I do not know. NO! Wait, there's independence, no fights, no late night calls and definetely no 1000000.00 and one presies.
hahahahah! so being single is not soooo bad after all. I mean I get time to chill with myself, to just be me. To not be judged, to not nag/shout at any one & I CAN DO ABSOLUTELY AS I PLEASE.
Hell! I am young,wild and free. Ok! remove the wild and replace it with "FRESH" hey! I am glad to be single...at times. It's like what happens when in a relationship. You know those times when you need your space and wish you were single? Those times when you need you just want to be left alone, to take a walk or go to lunch or read a book and actually "finish" readign it?
I feel that way now, I feel as though I have had enough time to be alone and chill. Do not get me wrong, I will need my space ina relationship but now I need someone to share my fabolous life with.


xoxo
Caro-on-the-grind
with Tshegofatso Maotoe and Molebogeng Ramputa

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Tuesday 8 May 2012

fusion and versatility is wher we are going this winter

We start with monochrome prints
TENACIOUS SOUL'S BLOOM SAILOR SQAUD RANGE

SKORZCH'S FAB COLOURBLOCKING JACKET
AND COLOURFUL BITS TO ADD MORE GLAM

CHECK ME NAILS OUT AND LE TOP
THE STOCKINGS
THE FINISHING TOUCHES
THE RANDOM CONCLUSION
FROM THE HEART
Caro-on-th-grind

Thursday 3 May 2012

a book review on Ryland Fisher's race


Introduction

At first glance the book, Ryland Fisher’s Race looks like a typical book you would not want to pick up and read, the length is a drag and the cover page quite simple, but when you delve into it, the book is different. It contains interviews of a group of heterogeneous people with different backgrounds, status quo, lifestyle and minds. Each person has a fixed and rigid answer for what race is and what racism means and how they view it.
 Brief overview of the contents
The book is meant to spark up conversations in post-apartheid South Africa on what race really means to us as individuals, and as a rainbow nation almost two decades after the Apartheid era. The author looks at how each person defines race and their place in society and then lets you the reader decide which is better and again he looks at the answers and tries to analyse what the interviewee is saying.
The purpose and the audience of the book
The main focus of the book is its title Race and it automatically moves away from the main theme and tries to discuss issues around racism, and racism as an issue more often than not air brushed. Racism is mostly confined to the white man being superior to the black man, and the black man being inferior to the white man, what about the coloureds and Indians. And in any case who is responsible for identifying which race or ethnic group one should belong to? Is it skin, hair or status?
Such issues are somewhat spoken of in the book. The 250 pages book looks like a bore at first glance but once you pick it up, there is no putting it down because not only is it different but it also sparks up conversation within. It makes you sit and wonder how things would have turned out if we were not under apartheid or if my thoughts about other races would be different id i was not of this race and what difference would that make.
This book makes you take a different look at your world and how things are done, yesternight I was in the ladies with coloured women and the first thing that came to mind was this book and the question “what do they think of me”. The book is a consciousness to say hey you are not the only one who is affected here but that we all are one way or another. And if we plan to build a brighter future, we need to move away from being the victims to being heroes and heroine, willing to let the torch of unity and acceptance as one nation reign in every aspect of our lives.
Compare the book to the last one I read
The Stillwater promise was based on love, mistake, broken promises, lies and reconciliation; both of these books share a few similar themes such as mistakes and going towards a route of reconciliation. Race is not a once off read that is easy to understand, it needs a deeper understanding of what the author wanted to achieve through writing such a masterpiece. Each chapter in Stillwater promise forms a thread to the past and links everything nicely for you lazy to think, race is different. It analyses and says things to a certain level and then allows you, the reader to make the final call on whether to read further or to shut the book altogether.
A summary of the main points of the book, quoting and paraphrasing at least three key phrases from the author
In his final thoughts section on page 245 Ryland tells us that “I decided that confusion was probably the best state to tackle a book of this nature. I hope that i have been able to inspire readers to question and review their viewpoints on racism, and that we as South Africans will continue to look for answers”. This quote stresses on the issue that Ryland is looking on starting researches and investigations by individuals that will lead to balanced and truthful talks on race and racism.
In the chapter with the heading who are we? Ryland explores the question is there such a thing as a South African identity? Here he mainly concentrates on the language we have gotten used to calling each other. He pays special attention to coloureds because he says that he has never been able to relate to being a coloured due to the opinion that he is yet to understand on what basis one becomes a coloured.
He goes further to ask if it’s because of skin colour, and he disagrees because he goes on to say some coloureds are whiter and others blacker than others. Even hair texture cannot be the basis on which one is said to be coloureds; Ryland concludes that it is simply a way of defining people who cannot be defined in any other way.

My evaluation of the book, how well has the book achieved its goal?
Ryland does not only explore that he is a racist but in chapter 7 he tackles the topic can racism ever be eliminated? This may sound like a cliché because all that has been happening in post-apartheid South Africa is talks to talk about race and racism. He says that as a previous editor of the Cape Times, he the media are supposed to be a mirror of the society, and that one could argue that as long as our society is racist, the media will also be racist.

With Kenny and Sielie Nolan, Sielie did not believe that there was racism in the media and  Tracy-Lee Rosslind begs to differ and says “ we need to walk away from stereotypes, because the stereotypes that we had in the apartheid era all reflected negatively on the non-white society.

Ryland explores both his strength and flaws in being racist and why he says such about himself. He chose to interview an interesting group of people who are not afraid to say who and what they are and their take on race and racism such as Orania leader, Carel Boshoff who says that he does not reduce everything to racism, however, he does not accept every references as racist.

Vincent Barnes is the assistant coach of the South African national cricket team and he says ‘it was traumatic for me as an anti-apartheid sportsman in those years to work at the dockyard “. The goal of the book which is to raise discussions on race and racism is achieved at an alarming rate that makes one wonder what had gotten into Roland when he was thinking about writing such a book as Rhoda Kadalie, one of the interviewees asked him. To ask one why there is such behaviour among us as a people and what brought it to life, and if there are ways to curb this burning flame and live with each other as ordinary human beings.

Background information

Ryland Fisher is a former CEO of the Cape Times and Sekunjalo Media Holdings.

Ryland fisher interviews South Africans on the issue of race, the role that it has played in their lives as individuals and how they see the future in a post-apartheid South Africa. Fisher goes on to tackle an issue of high sensitivity with the goal of starting a discussion on what race has meant to these interviews and what it means to you the reader. He decided to approach the writing style with a concept of letting different people in South Africa speak their mind on the issue.

The book has been received differently as it would be expected; some find it to be painful while other critics find it to be a breath of fresh air with regard to the approach used in writing the book. Ryland put his journalist skills to good use by writing a book that is not academic but shows a portion of his journalistic approach to writing.


What possibilities are suggested in the book?

Ryland opens up old wounds of apartheid and the policy of divide and rule comes into play, he has great respect for Mr. Steven Bantu Biko and how refreshing they were in making him realise that he is black, and at the time this meant opposing the apartheid government’s definitions of who he is.

In his introduction the heading is I am not a racist, but... Ryland says that he wants to challenge the assumption of the typical racist because he believes that he is a racist and further believes that people in South Africa are racist. He further goes to say he says he is a racist because in his entire he has been groomed to become one.

What has the book left out what is missing and what would i have added

The book left out that there might also be a comfort zone of always playing the victim and not wanting to move to a brighter future as one rainbow nation, the book does not explain how the past should not be forgotten but to forgive the oppressors and move on. The book though aimed at being journalist should have included academic information from analysts, doctors and literature on race and racism, and how far along we are as a people.

What the book needs is a an open minded reader who will critically think of what the author is trying to push through, is this an ideology to numb the pain or a plan to move on to a brighter future ? The reader is left to decide on this one. He tries to balance his thoughts but there is a tone of bias as he stands on the word that he believes that to some extent everyone is racist.

Conclusion

Race is a burst of fresh air because it thrives on producing a positive and beautiful rainbow nation that lives on its shores. There is hope though that issues that still need to be tackled, those being of race and racism will have solutions that everybody will be satisfied with. Here’s to a beautiful country, independent of the Apartheid era and all it holds.